It was this time last year when I first experienced family turning against me. While I was living in Empire, working & trying to get on my feet my family told me they would help me get my kids while at the same time they were plotting with my husband to testify against me in court. So, I shouldn't be shocked that the same people are up to no good once again. The circumstances are no where near what they were last year, but the deceit is still there.
It started out with Christmas Dinner. She asked could my girls come stay a few days with them. She said she would meet up with me after Christmas Day, giving her time to get the house clean & her mom to get over her cold. Two days after Christmas, after having a heated argument with my hubs I sent her a
text & asked her if dad's trailer was still not rented and she said it was rented. I simply said ok and changed
the subject. She offered to come get the girls the next day to give him and I some time to talk things out. Then she called & she sounded sick, so we put it off a day so that she could disinfect the house & get it cleaned up. She said she would call at 11 a.m.the next day to meet up with me to get the girls. I planned to spend the entire day visiting other family so that if Kensi felt uncomfortable (if the house was still too dirty for my daughter to feel comfortable staying the night) I would be close enough to come get them. I didn't hear from her until noon, when I called her. She said she was much better and the house was picked up but that she was running some errands so she needed to wait a little longer to meet me. I said fine and waited. After Mackensi asked me three times in one hour, "Mommy, when are we leaving?" I called again but didn't get anyone to answer. About an hour later, i get a call back. Apparently, the house didn't get cleaned up & everyone was still sick. Of course, knowing this I agreed that the girls didn't need to go. She was in the back ground yelling "tell her I'm headed to get my girls" I said, tell her No,just wait till everyone is better and the house is clean. Even though I knew it was for the best I was annoyed that I did all this planning, told the kids, they were excited and now, we were just going to sit at home, again today. SO, I posted on my face book wall:
"I get so annoyed when my family makes plans to get my kids & then ends up NOT getting them. I was really looking forward to a break for two days but oh well....some moms NEVER get a break."
I get a text at 8pm last night saying: Sorry I'm sick. As soon as i get over this mess i will be there to get my babies just like i said. I went to the dr and got 4 shots. I should be ubwBe better by next w-end. So quit talk bout me on here. I have never lied to u!!!!!!!! So U need to write how many times ur in laws lie to u or on u
Not long after this she called me apologizing for 'going off on me' and I simply told her it was ok, I didn't say anything ugly on fb and figured she just misunderstood. I honestly didn't consider this "going off on me" anyway. She began telling me how she has been going off on all kinds of people, even her doctor to the point he threw her out and said he wouldn't treat her anymore, said her own kids cant stand to be around her and was threatened with divorce if she didn't get control of herself. She said she's been so stressed she dropped from a size 10 jeans to a size 2 and now they are even too big. I told her all this worried me and she needed to go see someone. I asked was she still using drugs and she claimed she was clean, not even smoking pot anymore so I told her she should go to the ER and check herself in to see what's going on. Somehow, our conversation above got twisted....I woke up this morning to a missed call from her and a voice mail: apparently, she is talking to a friend....the voice mail began just like this:
... beat your ass off of you I said you know u don't want me on u ...she said.what in the hell is wrong with u..i said.. .why r u talking bad about me, i said i always get my babies when i say i am going to get them...i said u need to get on there and talk about ur in laws how they lied..i said i didn't fuckin lie i am sick mommas sick and boo boos sick now...and she said Joy why r u being so mean..i said I'm not being mean i said what u did is fuckin wrong and u shouldn't have done that...and uh.. after i got threw she said you better go admit yourself somewhere u got something going on, i said well i might do i said but i don't take ur shit, I'm not gonna take ur shit and no damn body else s. i said you have no business writing bad about me on fb just because when i did want them i couldn't get them because I'm sick. I cant help it. u art to be glad we didn't want to bring them up here and give it to them, were looking out for them babies and all your worried about is your stupid self................she texted me to ask me did we still have my trailer i said yeah but its rented Tiffany and i cant just throw someone out to let u have it.i cant do that, I'm not gonna do that to them, they pay every month and i never have to worry about them paying, they been there almost 6 years, I'm not gonna throw them out just to let you have it, i said there's no guarantee your gonna keep it once your even in it so why would i loose $325 a month just to get nothing, i think that's what made her mad to begin with because i wouldn't throw my renters out to let her have it.. I cant do that to people...why would i make them move out and let her have it when she prolly not even gonna pay rent and then I would end up having to fork out lot rent just so my grand-babies could stay there.I wouldn't do it &.that's what pissed her off to begin with................sure u don't want nothing? Go ahead and eat breakfast with us, get a cup of coffee and some breakfast then we will go on to the doctor office........
I pondered all morning about how to handle this. I asked the hubs if I should make her aware that I heard all of this and he said yes. I had all types of ideas: to post about it on my fb wall...to post about it to her fb wall...to call her...to ignore it...then i came up with a simple statement.
... beat your ass off of you I said you know u don't want me on u ...she said.what in the hell is wrong with u..i said.. .why r u talking bad about me, i said i always get my babies when i say i am going to get them...i said u need to get on there and talk about ur in laws how they lied..i said i didn't fuckin lie i am sick mommas sick and boo boos sick now...and she said Joy why r u being so mean..i said I'm not being mean i said what u did is fuckin wrong and u shouldn't have done that...and uh.. after i got threw she said you better go admit yourself somewhere u got something going on, i said well i might do i said but i don't take ur shit, I'm not gonna take ur shit and no damn body else s. i said you have no business writing bad about me on fb just because when i did want them i couldn't get them because I'm sick. I cant help it. u art to be glad we didn't want to bring them up here and give it to them, were looking out for them babies and all your worried about is your stupid self................she texted me to ask me did we still have my trailer i said yeah but its rented Tiffany and i cant just throw someone out to let u have it.i cant do that, I'm not gonna do that to them, they pay every month and i never have to worry about them paying, they been there almost 6 years, I'm not gonna throw them out just to let you have it, i said there's no guarantee your gonna keep it once your even in it so why would i loose $325 a month just to get nothing, i think that's what made her mad to begin with because i wouldn't throw my renters out to let her have it.. I cant do that to people...why would i make them move out and let her have it when she prolly not even gonna pay rent and then I would end up having to fork out lot rent just so my grand-babies could stay there.I wouldn't do it &.that's what pissed her off to begin with................sure u don't want nothing? Go ahead and eat breakfast with us, get a cup of coffee and some breakfast then we will go on to the doctor office........
I pondered all morning about how to handle this. I asked the hubs if I should make her aware that I heard all of this and he said yes. I had all types of ideas: to post about it on my fb wall...to post about it to her fb wall...to call her...to ignore it...then i came up with a simple statement.
" Next time you feel like talking yourself up to your friends by telling lies about me, make sure your phone is LOCKED so you don't accidentally call me again. I have a 3 minute long voice mail from you. Hope you enjoyed your breakfast before your doctor appointment."
Of course, it didn't take her long to respond & this is all she had to say VIA Text Message:
For 1 I wasn't bashing u i was telling the truth and u know it 2 i don't care who hears what i have to say & 3 if i was worried somebody would hear what i had to say i wouldn't say it! Bye = >
I simply wrote her back: "your delusional. u never said to me some of the things u told your friend. I never said anything else after u said the trailer was rented or acted mad"
Once again, I am disappointed by the actions of someone I thought I could trust. & LIFE GOES ON. . . . . With that text she sent, I assume she should have NO PROBLEM with this BLOG because she doesn't care who 'hears' what she has to say :
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