The straw that broke "the hubs" back

Of all the times Madi has cried to go to nanna's house, I was usually the only person to witness it. There came a day when Nancy asked to come get kensi for a sleepover and the hubs said she could go but that she would have to come to the house to pick her up. While she was at our home she spent a few minutes with madison, which made me happy. However, this gave Madi a false sense of what was taking place. Kensi began packing her suite case (as she always does) and so madi began to figure out what was happening. I could tell just by the way Madi was acting that she thought she was getting to go as well. I really was hoping to hear Nancy say that she could go, even for a few hours, but like always, she ignored Madi.

Madi followed kensi outside, while kensi was putting her stuff in nancy's car madison got distracted by some toys. I yelled for kensi & Nancy to tell Madi goodbye. Of course when Kensi told her sister goodbye Madi ran over to the car. Once she realized what was happening she got out of Nancy's car and literally ran over to my jeep. She opened the door and began pulling, desperately tugging away at the straps of her car seat, all the while screaming & CRYING " I go to Nanna's house, I go too!".

As I stand on my porch watching my 3yr old do this my heart literally is breaking. She now is smart enough to know what is happening and she is hurting. She wants special time with nanna too. I look over to the hubs and he looks over at Nancy and she is putting on her seat belt and shuts her door. She doesn't pay any attention to what Madi is doing. You think she didn't know what was going on, Yes she did. I yelled it over to the hubs who happened to be standing right beside nanna's car.

Nancy watched that baby desperately try to pull her car seat out of my jeep so that she could go with her and did nothing. She turned her car on and drove away. She continues to deny my baby her love, attention and affection.  I understand some people might look from her point of view and not understand why this bothers me so much. I can tell you one reason but I have many.  Anytime Kensi cries to see Nan and I don't let her we get into a fight. Anytime kensi cries for Nan, Nancy will beg and plead with me saying "I cant stand to see her cry for me, just let her come!". 

Nancy would NEVER turn her cheek and drive off like that if it were kensi. The hubs and I immediately discussed how awfully wrong she was and began to discuss how were we going to end Madison's hurting.